The Velvet Thorn Femdom Community

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10 November, 2013

Sunday Discussion - SL D/s Service Contracts


Sunday Morning Discussion – Report by KittyNinetails, discussion facilitator


The discussion at 9 a.m. SLT was held in text in the Pavillion.  There was quite a nice turnout, thank you to all those who attended and shared your thoughts.

The subject was, "SL D/s Service Contracts."

We discussed the concept of service contracts:  A service contract can be entered into without a collaring taking place.  It is simply an agreement of behavior and expectations.  It can also be used as a pre-collaring trial, or can be part of the collaring agreement.

We also discussed some of the things that might be included in a service contract, relating to timing of service, forms of address, limits, relationship boundaries, public vs. private behaviour rules, special duties, punishments and rewards, etc.

After the discussion, the questions came up, how do you meet a Domme who might be a good fit?  How do you tell if a sub is available and approachable?  One way is to get to know people's personalities and attitudes by attending activities and... discussions!

Hope to see you next week.  Please note that the Sunday discussions are open to everyone.