The Velvet Thorn Femdom Community

We are a lighthearted femdom community where we just don't take ourselves too seriously. It's a safe place to explore virtual sexuality, BDSM, femdom / female dominance and all forms of submission. Be sure to read the rules and then come visit us in world!

18 December, 2023

Mission Statement for Fun, Exploration, and Community


Established in January 2008, Velvet Thorn has been a cornerstone of the Second Life Femdom community. As the owner and creator, I, StarSong Bright, have always envisioned Velvet Thorn as more than just a sim – it's a vibrant, safe space for exploration, adventure, and self-expression with an emphasis on Femdom (female dominance).

Our Philosophy: Lighthearted and Inclusive: Velvet Thorn stands out as a place where Femdom is experienced in its most lighthearted form. We believe in the joy and excitement of exploring virtual sexuality in a safe, sane, and consensual environment. Our approach is not about stringent rules or high protocol; we find delight in the lighter side of Femdom, embracing a spectrum of experiences that are both engaging and respectful.

The Spirit of Velvet Thorn: The essence of Velvet Thorn is captured in our tagline, "We are a lighthearted femdom community where we just don't take ourselves too seriously." This ethos is about creating a welcoming, fun-loving environment. It's a place where everyone can explore their virtual sexuality, BDSM, and the dynamics of female dominance and submission without the pressure of conforming to strict norms.

A Call for Renewed Spirit: Over time, some aspects of our community have strayed towards a more militant stance on behavior and protocol. My mission now is to steer us back to our roots – a vibrant, FUN community where light-heartedness reigns supreme. We're not just about rules; we're about enjoyment, respect, and the freedom to explore within a supportive community.

Looking Forward: As we continue to grow and evolve, my commitment is to preserve the essence of what makes Velvet Thorn unique. I encourage everyone in our community to embrace our philosophy of lighthearted exploration and to contribute to making Velvet Thorn a joyous, engaging, and inclusive space.

Together, We Shape Velvet Thorn: Your participation, creativity, and respect for each other are what make Velvet Thorn a thriving community. Let's continue to build this wonderful space together, staying true to our philosophy of lighthearted, inclusive Femdom.

 Rules as Guidelines for Enjoyment: The rules at Velvet Thorn are designed not to constrain, but to ensure everyone has the best experience possible. They are in place to maintain peace and provide clarity, but they are not meant to stifle the unique spirit that makes Velvet Thorn special. Our approach to rules is pragmatic – necessary for harmony, but not at the expense of our core values of fun and exploration.  I have updated the rules this month and altered a few things so please take a few moments to look them over.  

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THE RULES OF THE VELVET THORN

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Welcome to the Velvet Thorn, one of the largest and longest-running Femdom Sims in SL, established in Jan 2008.  At the Velvet Thorn, we are a community of laid-back and light-hearted people.  VT was created to give folks a safe place to explore their virtual sexuality with an emphasis on Femdom (female dominance).

The creator of the sim, StarSong Bright, is not that big on rules, but over the years rules have had to be enacted to protect the peace and our members.  Problems, issues, and concerns can be directed to StarSong Bright (by notecard please if she is not online) so that your communication is not lost.

THE GOLDEN RULE ALWAYS APPLIES!

DO NOT BE AN ASSHOLE


THE FOLLOWING THINGS ARE FORBIDDEN

* Bullying / other non-consensual force

* Displays of male dominance (including weapons)

* Escorts / soliciting / findom - financial domination 

* Abuse of VT staff members

* Child avatars


GUIDELINES FOR SUBMISSIVES

*  Address the ladies as Miss

*  Do not IM without a good reason 

*  Take no for an answer.  If she says not interested, back off.

*  It is not mandatory to kneel at VT

*  Do not sit in the chairs in the lounge with backs

*  If you are a female switch, please pick one role and stick with it while at the sim

*  Female subs please wear your group tag ( this cuts down on title confusion )

*  Nudity should be artistic, and will be graded  ( if asked to dress, please do it! )


GUIDELINES FOR DOMINANT FEMALES

*  We are  a low protocol Femdom venue

*  There is no “one right way”  to participate in Femdom

*  We do not take ourselves too seriously here!

*  This is a safe, sane and consensual (SSC) sim

*  Subs at Velvet Thorn may respectfully decline orders

*  Being a bully or drama llama won’t make you popular 

*  Please be honest about RL gender+

*  Financial domination / escorting will not be tolerated ( we are no longer asking that it be  to removed from your profile, but soliciting at VT will get you banned )


ADDITIONAL EXPLANATION OF THESE RULES:

** Subs are not forbidden to instant messages the Dommes, but it is recommended that you ask in local first.  Always take no for an answer.

** We are removing the requirement that no escort groups show in profiles, but soliciting on the sim IS STILL STRICTLY FORBIDDEN.

** We are asking that female subs wear a submissive tag on sim to help cut down on title confusion.

** While asking that subs do not sit on the seats in the chat circle that have backs/arms the rest of the seating on the sim outside of chat circle are free for all sitters.  That said, there will be NO CHAIR DRAMA allowed.  

+ Be honest about your RL gender.

At Velvet Thorn, we value honesty and integrity, particularly regarding real-life gender representation. Our community is a place for interaction with female dominants. We understand that we cannot verify the actual gender behind each screen and do not enforce a strict gender verification policy. The responsibility lies with each individual to be truthful in their representation. We encourage males using female avatars and identifying as female dominants to be transparent in their interactions. Additionally, it's important to respect our community's norms: males in real life should not request or use the Mistress title and should refrain from using chairs designated for the ladies at Velvet Thorn Femdom.

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ABOUT MEMBERSHIP

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The membership in the Velvet Thorn costs 300 Lindens.  This fee helps us keep the group manageably sized and reduces the problems we have had with griefers who come in and litter and make drama.  We reserve the right to remove people from the group if they are causing problems and breaking the rules.  No refunds.

We also clear members out of the group periodically who have not logged into their account for one full year.  This helps to keep the group lean and improves everyone's ability to see the group chat and the notices properly.  It is assumed that avatars who haven't logged into SL in that length of time are no longer active. 

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These rules are subject to change at any time at the discretion of the sim owner.  

This Rev:16Dec2023

15 December, 2023

A Crucial Moment for Velvet Thorn: Our Call to Action and Unity


Dear Velvet Thorn Community,

As we approach the 16th anniversary of Velvet Thorn on January 20th, 2024, I reach out to you at a crucial crossroads. Our journey, rich with creativity and connections, now stands at a point where collective action and support are more vital than ever.

Embracing Our Crossroads – A Commitment to Revitalize: Faced with the prospect of seeing Velvet Thorn, a place so dear to my heart, potentially fade away, I've made a resolute decision. The idea of letting go of this community, which I cherish deeply, pains me. So, instead of giving up, I am doubling down on my efforts to rejuvenate and reinvigorate our beloved sim. Daily, I am pouring my time into Velvet Thorn, actively working on the rebuild, crafting a new airship for our main area, and planning festive activities for our upcoming anniversary. These efforts are aimed at bringing our community back together, rekindling the vibrant spirit that has defined us. The new airship and the anniversary celebrations are not just projects; they are symbols of hope and renewal.

The Reality of Our Situation: Historically, Velvet Thorn thrived as a community fully supported by its members through donations and fundraisers. However, the recent financial upkeep, around $250 a month, has become a personal challenge. Donation jars are placed around the sim, and every contribution, no matter the size, is a beacon of hope. Together, we can return to a community supported and sustained by its members.

Witness the Change and Be Part of It: Join us at our temporary viewing platform http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Femdom/208/122/116 to not only witness the unfolding of a new chapter but also to be a part of this exciting transformation. This platform offers a full-fledged venue complete with a party area, lounge, game areas, and an ice skating rink. Your presence and interaction are not just welcome; they are the wind beneath the wings of this project.

Your Voice Is Vital: Please contribute your thoughts by filling out our community survey here: https://forms.gle/DXbWK1r7JNkjjbn68. Your insights are crucial in guiding our path forward.

Boosting Our Presence: An active Velvet Thorn is a thriving one. Our game areas, featuring Greedy, Yacht5, and more, are perfect for fostering community spirit. Every visit, game, and interaction helps revitalize our community. Let's make Velvet Thorn bustling and dynamic once again.

A United Effort – Your Support Is My Lifeline: More than ever, I need to feel the community's support, both through your presence on-sim and financial contributions. Every visit you make, every Linden you donate, every moment you spend with us, is a lifeline, a reassurance that I am not striving alone. Your active engagement and support are crucial for our shared journey to continue with meaning and vitality.

Together, we can ensure Velvet Thorn remains a dynamic and self-sustaining community. This pivotal moment is our opportunity to strengthen our unity and collective resolve. I am fully committed to leading us into a hopeful future, but this journey is one we must take together.

With hope and gratitude,
StarSong Bright
Owner of The Velvet Thorn

02 February, 2023

What's your favorite Meme or Tik Tok?


 Hey Thornies!


How about we do a little fun post! 


What is your favorite Meme or Tik Tok? Toss me an email! I will share them in a future post!




2022 A year in review


 Hey Thornies!


Whew! 2022 is over and we are well into the beginning of 2023.  What a year?! Both good and bad things occurred for all of us including the loss of some of our community members. But we had good times, and celebrations as well.  We did a sub auction and we even tried out something new for the Dommes with the Winter Queen event! We celebrated anniversaries and pooled new ideas for events! We saw an influx of some really great people getting to know the sim and the people who come there.  We even had a youtube tour made of the sim!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1x8DSOrL40&ab_channel=DictatorshopinSecondLife

What did you enjoy about 2022?  Share your memories with me via email and I will share on a future post!

Here are some of our best moments Photo Style!





















    


































A Blast from the past


 Hello Thornies!


Do you miss the airship from days past? It is currently up at the sim right now. There is a handy little climbing rope to get up there.  The ship will be getting taken down soon, so now is your last chance to get up and see it and reminisce about the good ole days of VT. 


                         Tell me your favorite memory of the airship!